Saturday, August 17, 2013

Apologetics

Hi there everyone!

I figured you all need some illustration
Recently, I have been doing mostly advice articles about different aspects of faith. This has been partly because I've been testing the water with how this blog will be structured. Now its time to get down to the meat and potatoes of this blog.

Don't get me wrong, though.  I enjoy writing those types of articles and I feel they have an impact, however, I would also like to write articles that educate about the faith. In case you didn't already know, this blog was created for the purpose of apologetics. (Its a pun! "Don't Apologize" Get it? :D) My hope is to have a number of posts dedicated to different aspects of faith, particularly those that are confusing, obscure, and potentially controversial, to answer questions and to clear up any doubts you may have. That is my goal through this blog: to defend and explain the Catholic faith.

What is apologetics? Well, I'm glad you asked. Apologetics is a practice of the Catholic Church dating all the way back to...well, Christ. Christ himself engaged frequently in the defense of his own faith by quoting from scriptures and applying morality to hypothetical real-world situations (parables.) This is exactly what an apologist does, unfortunately we can't all be as good as Jesus was. He did, however, have an unfair advantage (being the all-knowing God and everything.)

Often, Patrick Madrid will jokingly describe apologists as "People who go around apologizing for being Catholic." In reality, the word 'apologist' stems from the Greek word 'apologia' which has been adapted into English as meaning "a formal justification". This word was even used in the Greek legal system to describe what would now be a defense attorney. So, contrary to popular belief, 'apologetics' does not mean an 'apology' as we know it today. Usually, when someone makes an apology, they have some sort of guilt and a reason to be sorry. Catholics don't have anything to be sorry for. We believe what we believe. Don't apologize. (There, you see? The name of the blog has a purpose.)




Apologetics has a very real purpose in the church today. Evangelization (spreading the word of Christ) is one of the biggest objectives of the Church. In our world, Christianity is very widely known. This is both a good and bad thing. Because Christian ideas are so widely known, this means that misconceptions of the Faith are also very widely known. People nowadays are less likely to immediately believe when you tell them about Christ's message. This means that, when evangelizing, you have to be prepared for people to resist your teaching. People will call you out and try to make you seem less credible. Just as we are all called to evangelize, we are also called to be apologists. St. Peter tells us all in his first letter to always be ready to defend your faith.
"In your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect." 1 Peter 3:15
How does one prepare himself to give a defense? Well, I'm glad you asked that, too. There's no way to prepare yourself for every question you will ever be asked. However, If you have a solid idea of how to handle yourself when a discussion arises, you will be okay. Fr. Sebastian Walshe describes an apologist's process as "accepting a premise that the opponent himself holds and moving from that accepted premise to a premise that is agreeing with the Catholic faith."

By this, he means finding a belief that you share with the other person and reasoning with them leading their beliefs to better understand yours. Fr. Walshe uses an example of an instance where you would be discussing with a Protestant. Because you both agree that the Bible is truth, you would use this common ground to explain to them the reasoning behind a Catholic doctrine.

There are definitely right and wrong approaches to apologetics. Most of the wrong approaches can be avoided by a simple, yet effective, question "What would Jesus say?" If you feel yourself getting angry (which is a perfectly reasonable reaction to confrontation) instead of yelling at the other person for their belief, attempt to calm yourself by thinking of the Christlike way to deal with the situation. After all, we are attempting to promote the Christlike way of life.

An apologetics argument can be difficult. My advice is to study and pray about the faith as much as possible. St. Paul in Romans 2:17-24 warns against hypocrisy, and hits on the point that he who teaches others must also teach himself. If you keep yourself well versed, it will be difficult for you to be caught off guard. Reading articles and books as well as watching/listening to other apologists helps a lot. There are many men and women who are very gifted apologists. Take advantage of their experience, and read up! A man I met recently at a Steubenville conference, Matt Fradd, is an amazing testimony to Christ and offers terrific advice for apologetics in one of his articles. [click here]

I'm praying for all of you! I hope your apologetics ventures will be fruitful. The best advice I can give you is to speak with the Holy Spirit in your heart. Sometimes you don't have the right words, but He does. Also, when you argue, do it for the glory of God, not for your own. It is very easy for an influential speaker to grow cocky with his gift. Keep all of this in mind, and you will all be very successful apologists!

Philippians 4:8-9

God Bless!
-Patrick

If you have any questions you want answered or topics you want discussed, email me, and I will get to writing. The topic for my next article is "Blessings." Thank you!


Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Balancing Yourself in the New School Year

Balancing your life can be hard, especially when school comes around. Even the summer can be stressful despite our wishful desires for three months of stress-free fun. I made the mistake of getting a part-time job that I was not ready for as well as dual-enrolling with summer classes. However, despite my load of responsibilities, I managed to have fun this summer, and I plan to do the same during the school year by balancing myself.

There's a reason why tightrope walking is so impressive. Balancing is almost impossible whether spiritually or physically 40 feet in the air. Maybe we marvel at an acrobat's poise because we can't find it in ourselves. I'm going to make a joke here but I want you to take it seriously as well as lightheartedly. Sometimes, in order to balance, we have to do what the tightrope walker does before they step out: pray. We have to take the advice of the skydiving instructor from the Helicopter episode of Drake and Josh. I really hope most of you get the reference. In the episode, he tells Drake step by step how to skydive:

"First you gotta Squat, then you gotta Pray. Leap, then Aaaahhh! Then Touchdown." 
Sometimes tackling on a stack of homework and a college essay while worrying about your relationship and that swim meet on Thursday will feel as stressful as jumping out if a plane. Trust me, though. If you just Squat and Pray, the Leaping and Aaahh-ing will result in a peaceful Touchdown.

We frequently get caught up in our busy lives that we forget to stop and thank God. Sometimes you can't think of anything to be thankful for because everything is so stressful! However, being thankful is the best way to calm your soul and deal with stress.

Prayer is the only fool-proof way to deal with stress. Even if your problems don't go away, you will always benefit from extra time with God. Spend some time praying a rosary, going to adoration, or quietly reading the bible. These can be great study breaks that both ease your mind and enrich your spiritual life. I highly recommend perpetual adoration. If your parish has an adoration chapel, make use of it. Adoration is a great experience. Sitting silently with Christ, just being in His presence, can help ease your heart.

Some problems dont have a due date, however. People don't give teenagers enough credit. There is a lot going on in our lives besides homework, relationships, and sports. It seems like there is always one thing that brings us down during our day. I know, personally, there is always one thing I am worried about, and no matter where I am or what I am doing, I am thinking about it. I'm sure some of you feel the same way. However, St. Paul writes to us that a "thorn in the skin" can actually be a blessing.
"Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." 2 Corinthians 12:8-10
This is one of my favorite passages, and I reference it a lot. Paul talks about how his thorn has kept him humble and, in the end, more thankful. Our thorns can do the same for us. We just have to recognize what they are. 

As you enter this new year, whether as a new high school or college student, or even returning, remember that sometimes stress can be a blessing, and can bring us closer to Christ. Don't worry about anything. Jesus told the apostles some reassuring advice.

Awwwwwwwwww!!!!
"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?"  Matthew 6:25-27
God takes care of the birds and everything else on earth. They don't worry about anything because they know they will be provided for. Jesus makes the point that you are more important than the birds, so God will always provide for you as well. After all, worry doesn't add an hour to your life.

I would like to leave you with a bible verse to look up on your own. Whenever I hit really hard times, this verse from the Book of Sirach (aka Ben Sira or Eccleciasticus) helps me. Please look it up and reflect on it whenever you feel you need more strength.
Sirach 2:1-6
Thank you for reading and have a blessed school year!


God Bless!
Patrick

And do your summer reading!!!

Thursday, August 1, 2013

I'm A Slacker...Here is my excuse

Hi there,

So, I've been very busy lately....

That's a lie, actually, I'm just very inconsistent. This site has been in the back of my mind for the amount of time (about a year) since my last post. 

Luckily, I will probably be able to post more in the near future.

I have a plan for what I'm going to post for the next month or so, and I plan on releasing different articles periodically (Hopefully Bi-Weekly). I also have a friend/editor to prod me to write. (Thank you, Laura!)

So, thank you for reading, and I promise new articles for your entertainment and spiritual purposes. Have a great day!

God bless,
Patrick